2023 LEISZ FAMILY REUNION IN TURTLE LAKE, WISCONSIN—A BIG SUCCESS!
Anton (1880-1942) and Sophia Leisz had 11 children. The only living child is Mary Magdalena "Marian" Leisz Hammang, b. 1928, who is in her mother's womb in this special family photo.
Marian's siblings are:
BACK ROW (from left): August , Tony Jr., Sophia "Bobbi", George Henry, Julia, and Henry George.
FRONT ROW (from left): Patriarch Anton, Helen, Gladys (blonde in foreground), Matriarch Sophia, Millie and Albert. All are deceased, with Gladys the last to pass in 2010.
Mother Sophia is expecting baby Mary, who, the only surviving child of this family and of her generation of Leisz's, celebrates her 91st birthday on February 17, 2019. She is on Facebook and lives in Temecula, California.
Leisz Brother Anton (1880-1942) and his wife Sophia Donaker Leisz (1884-1948) on their farm outside of Turtle Lake. The couple had 11 children, starting with Sophia "Bobbi" Leisz, who was born in 1903 when her father was 23 and her mother just 19 years old. Bobbi and would have been grown and likely married to Emmet James Kelly by 1924, the approximate year this photo was taken. And firstborn son Tony (1906-1997) would have been 18 years old then.
Some of the younger children, shown here, are (from left) Mildred "Millie" Josephine Leisz O'Malley (1922-2006), Helen Leisz McCoy (1919-2006), Albert Paul Leisz (1916-1998) and August "Augie" Jacob Leisz (1914-1998).
Anton and Sophia would go on to have two more children: Gladys "Gladie" Leona Leisz Wick (1924-2010) and Mary Magdalena "Marian" Leisz Hammang (b. 1928). Marian is today the only surviving person of her generation—that is, the children of the six Leisz Brothers and their Sister Mary Leisz Minnichsoffer. So Marian, age 90, is the matriarch of our family!
Note that both Millie and Helen died in the same year—2006. Both were at our 2002 "Homeward Bound" Leisz Family Reunion. And brothers Albert and Augie died in the same year too—1998. May their souls and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace.
Sophia Donaker (1884-1948), shown in this circa 1898 photo, married Leisz Brother Anton in 1903.
Sophia's older sister Barbara Donaker (1877-1950) had wed Leisz Brother Frank in 1900.
Then in 1905 Sophia and Barbara's brother Anton Donaker (1879-1961) ended up marrying their NIECE by marriage—Julia Minnichsoffer (1886-1960), oldest child of Leisz Sister Mary Leisz Minnichsoffer (1862-1903). So Sophia and Barbara were both sisters-in-law and aunts to Julia! Are you still tracking with us?!
Sophia, Barbara and Anton Donaker's parents are Jacob Donaker (1846-1898) and Magdalena (1852-1905). Both are laid to rest at St. Ann's Cemetery in Turtle Lake.
MANY THANKS TO SOPHIA'S GRANDSON KEVIN WICK FOR THIS VINTAGE PHOTO.
"This story comes from my father (Albert Paul Leisz) and it's very special to me...Papa said that his parents were brought up in a time and culture of restraint, where people didn't display affection and such, as they do in modern times," writes Patricia Leisz Garcia in an email dated April 30, 2002. "He said, in fact, that he'd only seen one display of affection between his parents in his entire life, and this was what brought it on.
It seems the family—Sophia, Anton and their large number of children—were around the dinner table and were joined on that night by one of Anton's brothers. I don't know which brother, I wish I did. Anyway, all the children of my grandparents were dark-haired except for my Aunt Gladys, who was white blonde. Well, Anton's brother, during the dinner, made what he thought was a funny comment about little Gladys, that her mother, Sophia, must have been stepping out on Anton since that one child was so different from the others.
Apparently, my grandmother was a very decent person (my mom said Sophia was a saint) and also quiet and serious. She was crushed and embarrassed by the remark. And my father said his mom just sat at her seat and put her head way down and it was clear that she was crying and very hurt.
At that point, my grandfather Anton got up from his chair and went to her and put his arm around her and consoled her, telling her that his brother was only jesting and she need not take offense. It must have made quite an impression on my father, as I said since he'd never witnessed any touching or affection publicly between his parents, that story helped me to understand my father better...his people came from that reserved Germanic culture, and displays of emotion just were not part of their makeup."
Patty Leisz Garcia (above) has a brother, Albert Paul Leisz, Jr. Al wrote an email on Jan. 29, 2002, where he says:
"I recall my father saying something about some cousins who used to come up to visit (Turtle Lake) from Cleveland, when he was young, and still helping out during harvest season on the farm. They used to say how it was good exercise—and my father would MOAN!"
DENISE LEISZ, GRANDDAUGHTER OF LEISZ BROTHER JOSEPH, VISITED WITH MARY MAGDALENA "MARIAN" LEISZ HAMMANG AND HER DAUGHTER KAT HAMMANG WAGNER FROM FEB. 1-4, 2019.
PERHAPS YOU REMEMBER KAT FROM OUR 2018 FAMILY REUNION; SHE ATTENDED WITH BROTHER MICHAEL HAMMANG. THEIR MOM MARIAN WAS UNABLE TO MAKE THE TRIP FROM CALIFORNIA TO TURTLE LAKE.
MARIAN IS THE ONLY LIVING CHILD OF THE SIX LEISZ BROTHERS. SHE IS THE YOUNGEST CHILD OF ANTON LEISZ (1880-1942) AND SPOUSE SOPHIA DONAKER LEISZ (1884-1948). IN THAT SENSE, SHE IS THE LIVING MATRIARCH OF OUR ENTIRE LEISZ EXTENDED FAMILY—DESCENDANTS OF ALL SIX LEISZ BROTHERS, PLUS THEIR SISTER MARY LEISZ MINNICHSOFFER.
MARIAN TURNS 91 YEARS YOUNG ON FEBRUARY 17. WISH HER A HAPPY BIRTHDAY AS MARY HAMMANG ON FACEBOOK!
THIS VIDEO FROM 2019 FEATURES MARIAN'S SEVEN CHILDREN—6 BOYS AND 1 GIRL—SING HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HER. TAKE A LISTEN, THEN SCROLL DOWN FOR LOTS OF MEMORIES THAT MARIAN HAS SHARED WITH US FOR POSTERITY.
Julia Leisz, called "Jewell", passed away in 1935 at age 27 within a year of marrying. Marian has letters that Jewell, living in St. Paul at the time, wrote to her parents Anton and Sophia Leisz back in Turtle Lake. Denise will be posting these letters here. Stay tuned. Denise also has photo scans of Jewell holding newborn Marian in 1928 and will post those as well.
Marian's sister Millie Leisz O'Malley (1921-2006) left Turtle Lake in the mid-1940s after her father Anton had passed in 1942. She left with sister Helen (1919-2006), and the two found their fortune—and husbands—in Hollywood. It was the mid-1940s, the "Heyday of Old Hollywood," and Millie even went out on a date with Cary Grant! She also attended the 1967 Academy Awards, looking like a movie star herself!
The toilet under the stairway. The manual washing machine, and the "favored" son who got to stay home from school when Anton's wife Sophia had to do laundry, so this son could crank the handle! The cooking and baking. Hog slaughtering day. The 120-year-old wooden rocker that Sophia rocked her 11 children in. AND MUCH MORE FROM DAYS GROWING UP ON THE ANTON LEISZ FAMILY FARM IN TURTLE LAKE. Stay tuned!
More about Anna Minnichsoffer, born in 1902, and raised by Anton and Sophia Leisz after Anna's mother Mary Leisz Minnichsoffer died in 1903. Anna grew up thinking that Anton and Sophia were her birth parents, and that their children were her siblings. She then ran away in her late teens (during the 1920s) upon finding out who her blood parents and siblings were. Denise received more information about Anna from Marian, and also a portrait of her—all coming soon to this website.
Marian has letters from all together different branches of the Leisz family, beyond the six Leisz Brothers and their Sisters Mary Leisz Minnichsoffer and Julia. These letters were written in the 1990s and connect some dots between our Leopold Leisz (1835-1893) branch and Leopold's relatives in Eastern Europe back in the early- to mid-1800s. More coming soon on this!
Photos, stories, documents and much more will be posted to this website in coming days. Check back often. Denise has a veritable TREASURE TROVE of Leisz family history from Mary Magdalena "Marian" Leisz Hammang!
Below are just SOME of the Leisz family genealogy documents scanned at the Southern California home of Marian Leisz Hammang Feb. 1-4, 2019. Check them out! Shown here with Marian are Denise Leisz (left), granddaughter of Leisz Brother Joseph; and Josie Leisz (right), wife of Bob Leisz, who is a grandson of Leisz Brother Joseph.
If you were at the September 2018 Leisz Family Reunion in Turtle Lake, you might have heard Marian's daughter, Kat Hammang Wagner, read THIS HISTORY of the Anton branch of the Leisz family during the Friday Oral History Workshop. Marian wrote this document for her children Kat and Michael to take with them to the reunion and share with attendees.
Growing up on her parents' farm in Turtle Lake, Marian remembers her eldest "sister" Anna, who was actually the youngest child of Mary Leisz Minnichsoffer. Mary was a sister of the six Leisz Brothers, and when she passed away in 1903, her brothers took in the younger children to raise them to adulthood. Marian's dad Anton and mom Sophia took in Anna, who was about 4 months old at the time. Read this SAD STORY and more HERE about what happened to Anna.
HERE is a newspaper story "Hungary Has Ethnic Goulash In the Making" that delves into the multi-ethnic composition of the population of what today is Hungary.
Get a load of THIS 1974 document—a Coat of Arms created for the Leisz surname, and commissioned by Marian's sister Helen Leisz O'Malley.
Check out THIS document prepared by Christine Mathews Long, great-granddaughter of Leisz Brother Joseph, for our 2002 Leisz Family Reunion. It contains fun facts about what life was like 100 years ago when our ancestors were farming in northern Wisconsin.
I had just driven north from San Diego airport in traffic to Marian's home. There I was greeted by Marian, her daughter Kat and brother Walt.
Marian's arrival was a surprise to her parents, Leisz Brother Anton and his wife Sophia. The couple already had ten children - five boys and five girls. Then, four years later, along comes another baby - a little daughter they named Mary Magdalena Leisz, after her paternal and maternal grandmothers.
Milking the cows was something the six girls on the Anton Leisz farm were responsible for - including sister Gladys, shown above. But Marian was afraid of the Holstein cows..."They were so much bigger than me," she recalls. So her Papa kindly assigned her to other chores, including household kitchen tasks.
Marian recalls the wedding, circa 1935, of her eldest sibling Sophia "Bobbi" to Emmet Kelly. Marian (front left) was a flower girl, as was her brother Hank's eldest child Betty Leisz Severance. Marian's sister Helen was maid of honor, and brother Augie was best man. The wedding was a real Leisz Family Affair!
In the 1920s, a flapper was a fashionable young woman intent on enjoying herself and flouting conventional standards of behavior. Flappers bobbed their hair, shortened their skirts, and flaunted their disdain for what was then considered acceptable behavior and social norms for young women. Julia Leisz was about 19 years old when this photo was taken. Here she emulates the flapper look. Flappers had their origins in the liberal period of the Roaring Twenties, the social, political turbulence and increased transatlantic cultural exchange that followed the end of World War I, as well as the export of American jazz culture to Europe.
Notice Julia's stylish crimped hair style, which was all the rage in the 1920s. Made popular by Hollywood actresses such as Clara Bow, these "finger waves" have been around in different forms for centuries but are most associated with the Roaring 1920s and early 1930s. Originally women would create these finger waves in a wet set, that is wet hair.They are extremely difficult to create, by holding the hair down and combing the hair in the opposite place and holding in place with double ended clips and end papers.
CLICK HERE TO SEE JULIA'S ENGAGEMENT PHOTO AND ARTICLE IN THE NEWSPAPER.
PHOTO AT LEFT: Mary Magdalena "Marian" Leisz Hammang is the youngest of Leisz Brother Anton's children. She was born in 1928 and today resides in California. Marian is shown here at the 2002 Homeward Bound Leisz Family Reunion with sisters (from left) Helen Leisz McCoy (1919-2006), Millie Leisz O'Malley (1922-2006), and Gladys Leona Leisz Wick (1924-2010).
After the 2002 Family Reunion in Turtle Lake, Wisconsin, Marian Leisz Hammang typed these memories of growing up on the family farm in Turtle Lake. She sent them to Family Reunion co-organizer Denise Leisz, who recently found them in her reunion files and is so happy to finally bring Marian's words to life here.
"I was only on the farm 13 years when my parents decided to retire (in 1941) and sell to our brother Tony. Those were very happy years, but also very lonely...very few neighbors' children to play with...walking to and from school (one mile each way) did take up part of the day, plus lots of homework did keep us busy during the school year. Summers were more of a drag for us younger ones. Anyhow, I'm happy I do have these memories."
"Life on the farm was easier for me than my older brothers and sisters, mainly because I was born in 1928...the year electricity was installed on our farm. We also had a couple of vehicles, so that our weekly trip on Saturday nights to Borkon's Store and other errands, plus church on Sundays, were certainly more comfortable than horse and buggy."
"I am told that, after marriage our parents lived in a log cabin which they built on their property. Grandma Mary Schmidt lived with them. Soon after marriage, they adopted Anna Minnichsoffer due to the death of her mother Mary, sister to our dad. After the arrival of daughter Sophia in 1903, ten more children arrived, about one every two years."
"We believe the house, barn and many smaller buildings were built with the assistance of relatives nearby. Most of the major buildings on the farm, which required much strength and speed, were always relative-assisted: namely, threshing, haying, slaughtering of hogs, etc. Family ties were very strong in those days."
"When I reflect on my early years, I can't help but feel how organized people were and how self-sufficient. Nearly all of our food was grown or raised, with the exception of flour, sugar, spices, citrus fruits, salt, material for sewing, thread, shoes. overalls, etc. Our mother had a huge garden each year, and fresh produce was a daily occurrance in the summer. Excesses were always canned...a big job. On our farm, it seemed the norm was WORK, EAT, SLEEP!"
"We got our first radio and telephone in about 1932. Radio was a big entertainment for us in the early evening, but when dad was listening to the news, we had to be very quiet. In the evenings, our dad would smoke a pipe and work with figures involving his job as treasurer of Sunnybrook School. He also was an insurance agent for Catholic Family Life Insuance Company of Milwaukee. Our dad spoke very good English; by reading, he educated himself in the history of America, etc."
"During the Depression, our dad was able to purchase another farm which was later purchased by our brother August. Dad also bought the Fisk Hotel across the street from the Train Depot. He remained a dedicated dairy farmer until his retirement in fall 1941." SHOWN ABOVE: Turtle Lake Train Depot.
"In addition to all the work of dairy cattle, our dad also raised bees, which necessitated removing the cones from the hives, placing them in a special unit to turn the handle fast and remove the honey...this was our job! Dad also had purple grape vines which produced a delicious wine he would prepare. Unfortunately, some of his sons liked it so much, he had to build a special vault in the basement to keep the supplies locked up!"
"Dad also had all the supplies needed for repairing leather boots and shoes. He had a large volume on medical knowledge...for both animals and humans. We NEVER went to the doctor...immunization shots were unheard of until polio was discovered. Dentists were only used to pull decayed teeth. Our dad had excellent teeth. Our mother, on the other hand, did wear false teeth at a young age."
"Our dad was about 5'9" tall. He had a very loud voice and carried a tune well. We were told he sang in the church choir in his early years. He also had the loudest sneeze of anyone I've ever heard...our farm would vibrate (it seemed) when he sneezed outdoors. People called him "Tony." As a kid, I learned to manipulate him (when he was drinking beer at the hotel on Saturday nights) by talking in German and saying exactly what my sisters said to say, so that we could get nickels for ice cream cones!!"
"Traveling salesmen would arrive at our farm on occasion...our dad had a real weakness when it came to saying "no" to their pitch. Our mother was unhappy with the huge overstuffed office chairs (leather) that she had to fit into our rather small living room!! On another occasion, we daughters were encouraged to wear the fancy high-heeled shoes worn by women years before with long gowns, etc. Dad bought a couple dozen of those gems...none of us could, or would, wear them!"
"On Christmas, our family would select a special tree from our pastures and bring it in the house a day or so before the holiday. We had special ornaments including real little candle clips...but we were not permitted to light the candles. I remember standing in the cold and snow with my dad (while with the rest of the children) we would be given a stocking that had an orange, peanuts in the shell, and lots of hard candy. This was a real treat for me...and I remember thinking how nice it was for my dad to take me."
"I remember when I was about 4 years old, my dad and Uncle Frank drove to see their brother Joseph in Ohio. This was a very long trip for them and certainly they were not accustomed to city driving. I don't remember details, but I do remember there was an accident involving our dad...he was injured. Our mother received the news and became very distraught, and while crying, said to us, "WHAT CAN I DO NOW/" My sister Gladys, only 8 years old, said, "Don't worry, ma-ma, I'll take care of you!" Out of the mouths of babes! At any rate, our dad did return in time and was able to resume his farm work without problem."
"In regard to the various animals on the farm: Chickens were the main work for our mother. In the spring she would buy lots of baby chicks. As they grew, some were used for egg-laying, others for some mighty good meals. Since we also had ducks, the feathers and down were used in our pillows and feather-ticks...similar to our comforters of today. Every Saturday evening, our mother would take to Borkon's store clean eggs that she had gathered that week. With these eggs, she was able to barter for items we didn't have on the farm, such as flour, sugar, etc. Occasionally, we did have geese (meanies), sometimes we also raised a few turkeys, but they were more difficult to raise."
"Our dad was in charge of the pigs. Usually, once a year, he and relatives would slaughter a very large one. That was a very busy day...the kitchen had every inch of space in use, while the women and men were utilizing all the parts...sausage was made, lard was rendered, brains, liver, heart were all used quickly because we had no refrigeration. Many trips were made to the cellar, where the damp, cold earth did keep perishable items cold. All parts of the pig were used, including feet, skin, etc."
"Of course, the Holstein cattle we raised gave us an abundant supply of milk and cream. Our mother made her own cottage cheese and butter...later butter was obtained from the creamery where our milk was delivered, but dad made sure we didn't use too much!! But with all the delicious home-made bread our mother made, spreading on the butter was mighty easy." PHOTO ABOVE: Workers pose next to churns full of butter at the Barron Coop Creamery, Barron, Wisconsin, c. 1900. Image courtesy of Wisconsin Historical Society. (Image ID 3238)
Anne Leisz Mann, daughter of Albert Paul Leisz, shared the following: "My father told a cute story about the time his dad shot one of their farm horses. Not sure why. Once they thought it was dead, they all sat down to dinner. While they were eating they looked at the kitchen window and who should be standing there watching them??? That horse! Evidently the bullet must've just stunned the poor thing. My guess is my grandfather Anton must have reshot the poor thing later that night."
Al's daughter Anne has another story for us: "Our mother often told stories about what it was like to go visit Al's family on the farm in Turtle Lake. Keep in mind that she was born in Manhattan—pure city girl thru and thru. Now she goes with our father to the farm, and she was aghast to find an outhouse and a thunder jug under the bed!! Our mother absolutely hated the farm. However, she always had good things to say about her mother-in-law Sophia. Evidently the woman worked like an ox from sun up to sun down. Our mother told of how Sophia would iron all the tiny pleats in a baby dress with such perfection. And those irons were heavy!!! No wonder poor Sophia always looked sooo exhausted in her photos!"
NOTE: The introduction of indoor flush toilets started to displace chamber pots, in the 19th century but they remained common until the mid-20th century. The alternative to using the chamber pot was a long cold walk to the outhouse in the middle of the night.